Ladies, I wore a summer dress last night and I was so comfy! Why? Because I sucked it up and order a pair of shorts from www.thighsociety.ca They're not super cheap ($38), but I give up. Nothing else seems to exist. I don't want Spanx, just something to stop the rub. They just changed their product material, so I can't speak for the new but I'm going to order at least one more pair.